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I hope you find these as helpful I do.
Basics
- What is your full name?
- Do you have a nickname (if so, who calls you this)?
- Where and when were you born?
- Who are/were your parents? (Their names, birthplaces, occupations, personalities, etc.)
- Do you have any siblings? If you do, what are/were they like?
- Where do you live now, and with whom?
- Describe the place (home and location) and the person/people you live with.
- What is your occupation? To which social class do you belong?
- Are you right- or left handed?
- What does your voice sound like?
- On what occasions do you lie?
- Do you have a motto? If so, what is it?
- Do you have any annoying habits, quirks, strange mannerisms, or other defining characteristics?
- What is your hair color and eye color?
- What kind of distinguishing facial features do you have?
- Do you have any physical traits that stand out (such as scars, birthmarks, tattoos, etc.)?
- If you have scars, how did you get them?
- If you have tattoos, why did you get them and what meaning do they have to you?
- Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
- How would you describe your childhood?
- How much schooling have you had?
- Where did you learn most of your skills and other abilities?
- Did you have any role models? If so, describe them and why they were your role models.
- How did you get along with the other members of your family?
- What did you want to be when you grew up?
- What were your favorite activities?
- When and where were you the happiest?
- Who were your friends, and what were they like?
- When did you have your first kiss, and who with?
- Describe any influences in your past that led you to do the things you do today.
- What do you consider the most important event of your life so far?
- Who has had the most influence on you? What do you consider your greatest achievement so far, why? What is your greatest regret so far, why?
- Has this regret formed you into the person you are today? If so, why?
- What is the most evil thing you have ever done so far?
- Do you have a criminal record?
- What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you so far?
- If you could change one thing from your past, what would it be, and why?
- What is your best memory so far?
- Why is it so powerful and lasting?
- What is your worst memory so far?
- Why is it so powerful and lasting?
- What is you biggest secret? Does anyone else know about this?
- Which person do you least want to know about this secret, why?
- Are you optimistic or pessimistic?
- What is your greatest fear?
- Which other person knows about this fear of yours?
- Who do you not want to know about this fear of yours, why?
- What is your greatest extravagance?
- What are your religious views?
- What are your political views?
- Do you believe in the existence of soul mates and/or true love?
- Are you able to kill? Under what circumstances do you find killing to be acceptable or unacceptable? What do you measure success in? (Money, career, husband/wife, children, happiness, etc.)
- How honest are you about your thoughts and feelings in the company of others?
- Do you have any prejudices? If so, what are they and why do you have those specific prejudices?
- Who or what would you die for, or otherwise go to extremes for?
- In general, how do you treat others (politely, as they treat you, by keeping them at a distance, with sarcasm, etc.)?
- Does your treatment of them change depending on how well you know them, and if so, how?
- How close are you to your family?
- Which person do you wish you were closest to?
- Do you have a spouse or significant other? If so, describe this person in some rough strokes.
- Have you started your own family? If so, describe them in rough strokes. If not, do you want to start a family? Why or why not?
- Who is the most important person in your life, why?
- Who is the person you respect the most, why? Who are your friends?
- Do you have a best friend?
- What do you most value in your friends? Describe them with some basics like their personalities, how you met them, what you have in common, etc.
- Have you ever been in love? If so, describe in some rough strokes what happened (love at first sight, unrequited love, ended up marrying him/her, ended with heartbreak, etc.).
- Who would you turn to if you were in desperate need of help?
- Do you trust anyone to protect you? Who, and why?
- If you died or went missing, who would miss you?
- Who is the person you despise the most, why?
- Do you tend to argue with people, or avoid conflict?
- Do you tend to take on leadership roles in social situations?
- Do you like interacting with large groups of people? Why or why not?
- Do you care what others think of you? Why or why not?
- What is/are your favorite hobbies and pastimes?
- What is your favorite color?
- What is your favorite food?
- What is your most treasured possession?
- Do you like to read? If so, what do you like to read?
- What do you believe is good entertainment (music, movies, dance, art, etc.)?
- Do you smoke, drink, or use drugs? If so, why? How do you get the money for it?
- Do you want to quit?
- How do you spend a typical Saturday night?
- What makes you laugh?
- What shocks or offends you?
- What makes you happy?
- What makes you sad?
- What makes you angry?
- If you usually walk away from a situation that makes you angry, where do you go to calm yourself?
- How do you deal with stress?
- How do you deal with pain (physical and emotional)?
- Are you spontaneous, or do you always need to have a plan?
- What are your pet peeves?
- Which living person do you most despise? Why?
- What is the quality you most like in a man?
- What is the quality you most like in a woman?
- Where would you like to live? Why?
- Describe the routine of a normal day for you. How do you feel when this routine is disrupted?
- What is your greatest strength?
- What is your greatest weakness?
- Which talent would you most like to have? Why?
- Do you like yourself?
Multi award winning writer, Patty Nicholas-Boyte lives with her Husband Brian in the mountains of North Carolina. She is a busy event planner for the Billy Graham Training Center at the Cove, and is a member of the Blue Ridge Writers Group. She is a mother of two grown daughters and grandmother of three. She writes Bible studies and devotionals as well as contemporary romance.
She is a regular contributor to the Cove Blog.
Devotions are published in compilations by Lighthouse Bible Studies.
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