Showing posts with label #encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #encouragement. Show all posts

Thursday, April 9, 2020

“SOMEBUNNY” NEEDS YOU By Patti Jo Moore

Easter blessings, my friends! I’m certain we’ll all agree that this Easter season is unlike any Easter season (or spring season) we’ve experienced in the past. Ever. With the horrible Covid-19 virus (I shudder even typing that) pandemic, our lives have been turned upside-down. And shaken. But as Christians, we cling to our faith and the hope we have in Christ—and we persevere. We must! 😊

Recently, I’ve been reading some excellent articles and blog posts encouraging those of us who are writers. Some wonderful, uplifting suggestions to keep us going, even when we feel we’re in a fog. Personally, I’m relieved to know I’m not the only one who’s having difficulty staying focused. Yes, it’s frustrating when you need to complete your current project, but just can’t seem to keep your mind on the story or your fingers on the keyboard. But knowing you’re not alone helps somehow.

Originally, this post was going to be about writing through this trying time, foggy brain and all. I’d planned on offering encouragement and cheering folks on. But then…I decided that for some writers, maybe—just maybe—the Lord has another way for you to use this time at home. Could it be that you’re supposed to put away that manuscript (temporarily, of course) and write something completely different? Maybe you write contemporary romance but for a season you’re supposed to write for children, or young adults. A completely different genre. Or maybe you’re supposed to send cards to people (a personal favorite ministry of mine), including handwritten notes of encouragement and hope. Who couldn’t use some uplifting words right now, delivered by snail-mail in an old-fashioned card?

Or maybe you’re supposed to take a little break from writing altogether, and spend time phoning elderly shut-ins who are lonely, to offer an encouraging word to them. You never know how a simple act of kindness can brighten someone’s entire day (or week!). For those of you with children in your home, this is an opportunity to get super creative with activities for them. Or, simply sit and read together.

Are there craft projects you’ve wanted to make and give as gifts at Christmas (yes, I realize it’s only April now) 😉 but when life was “normal” you never had the time? Or it could be that during this season you need to be a prayer warrior for someone. The point is: Somebody needs you! Whether it’s your writing, your listening ear, or your prayers—YOU can be used to help others during this very trying time.

Since I’ve been seeing so many cute pictures of bunnies recently, I couldn’t resist the play on words in my blog title today. 😊 Always the kindergarten teacher, I guess. Despite these uncertain, trying times, I hope each of you will have a very blessed Easter, as we celebrate our Savior’s victory over death.

He is not here: for He is risen, as He said. Matthew 28:6

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Sadie's Dream

In a coastal Georgia town in 1900, a young woman prepares to serve as a missionary in Africa.

After being jilted the previous year, she's certain she's meant to remain single.

When she meets a handsome businessman from Savannah, she begins struggling with doubts.

Over time she learns that the Lord's plans are best, and dreams really can come true.

Patti Jo Moore is a retired kindergarten teacher and lifelong Georgia girl. She loves Jesus, her family, cats, and coffee, and is blessed to be published with Forget-Me-Not Romances. When she’s not spending time with her family (including her sweet grandbaby) or writing her “Sweet, Southern Stories” Patti Jo can be found feeding cats—her own six and local strays.

She loves connecting with readers and other writers, and can be found on Facebook at Author Patti Jo Moore or her personal blog at http://catmomscorner.blogspot.com


Thursday, November 14, 2019

Be Kind To Others - - - And To Yourself 😊 By Patti Jo Moore

As Christian writers, we want to show kindness. This is done in countless ways—including encouraging other writers, sharing lessons we’ve learned in our own journey, posting great reviews for books we’ve enjoyed, and lifting up an author-friend who may have gotten a not-so-great book review.

If we’re published, we also want to be kind to our readers. This can also be done in countless ways—from corresponding with them via e-mail and blogs to giving away prizes to show our appreciation for readers.

But I was recently reminded of another way writers need to be kind, and that is to ourselves. I’ve battled a rotten cold for a full week—nothing major, but still feeling miserable. My worst day of this pesky cold was last Friday. I’d been home since Wednesday, not even venturing out to my mailbox. I was reminded of the fact I have a December first deadline, and had gotten behind (okay…waaay behind) on my word count. I had everything I needed—medicine, tissues, coffee, soup, and my kitties napping close by—and the sunshine was streaming in my window next to my desk. It was the perfect setting for me to dive in and let those words flow.

Except…I did not feel like doing a thing. Not one thing. Even my favorite hobbies of reading and needlepoint held no appeal. What was going on? I didn’t want to turn on the television (not even to the Hallmark channel!) and couldn’t think of anything at all I wanted to do. So guilt poked me with that annoying voice. You’re wasting this entire day. Since you’re not sleepy, you should be at least doing something! Remember all those words you still need to write before December?

And it hit me then—something I’ve often heard other writers say. We tend to be hard on ourselves. Sure, it’s great to push ourselves to write or do writing-related tasks even if we’re not feeling motivated. But when we are ill—even from nothing serious—our body still needs rest. And if that means simply gazing out your window and being thankful for the sunshine and Autumn leaves, then that’s okay. 😊 Even Jesus took time to rest.

So with the holidays fast approaching, if you should become sick (which I hope you won’t!) or even overwhelmed with the dozens of items on your To-Do list, please take some time and rest. Without feeling guilty. Then when you’re feeling better, you’ll be ready to tackle whatever has been waiting on you! Be kind to others—and to yourself.

And be ye kind one to another. Ephesians 4:32

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Sadie's Dream

In a coastal Georgia town in 1900, a young woman prepares to serve as a missionary in Africa.

After being jilted the previous year, she's certain she's meant to remain single.

When she meets a handsome businessman from Savannah, she begins struggling with doubts.

Over time she learns that the Lord's plans are best, and dreams really can come true.

Patti Jo Moore is a retired kindergarten teacher and lifelong Georgia girl. She loves Jesus, her family, cats, and coffee, and is blessed to be published with Forget-Me-Not Romances. When she’s not spending time with her family (including her sweet grandbaby) or writing her “Sweet, Southern Stories” Patti Jo can be found feeding cats—her own six and local strays.

She loves connecting with readers and other writers, and can be found on Facebook at Author Patti Jo Moore or her personal blog at http://catmomscorner.blogspot.com

Tuesday, September 24, 2019

Writer Steps by Emily Wickham

“Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it” (Psalm 37:5, NASB)

Sometimes we feel overwhelmed and perplexed about how to progress in the writing world. At such moments, we can benefit from implementing three steps:

STEP #1: Establish a Prayer Team

Six years ago, I sent a Facebook message to several godly women, explaining my desire to form a prayer team and inviting them to participate. I requested a one-year commitment, which each woman accepted. My team was formed, and though membership has changed slightly over the years, it still exists today.

If you establish a team, practicing consistency will promote effectiveness. For instance, it’s helpful to create a daily, weekly, or monthly prayer schedule. Also, it’s best to specify needs rather than asking for prayer in general. Are you facing a critical deadline? Sending a proposal? Nearing your book launch? Details regarding your career should be communicated on a regular basis. Let's entrust our writing ministry to the faithful prayers of others. It makes a powerful difference. The Lord delights in the prayers of His people, and He answers.

STEP #2: Grow Your Platform

Blogging and social media help us build an audience, a necessary career component whether we self-publish or seek a traditional publisher.

Blogging Tips:
• Post regularly.
• Write valuable content.
• Choose a mission for your blog and stick to it.
• Limit posts to 1,000 words or less.
• Edit before posting.

Social Media Tips:
• Focus on using two platforms well (advice I heard from Edie Melson, who specializes in social media.)
• Utilize a scheduling tool, such as Hootsuite (also recommended by Edie Melson) – I use the free plan to post on Twitter. I don’t use it for Facebook, however, because of the FB algorithm.
• Incorporate video – People respond well to videos, and according to Bill Carmody, “video will dominate for the foreseeable future.” (Check out his article HERE for helpful insights.) I can attest to the effectiveness of video, too, due to my Devotions for Women videos. They generally reach farther on Facebook than my blog posts, and one video in particular has received 200+ likes on Twitter.

STEP #3: Write A Lot for Free

Following this advice from Cindy Jones in my early writing days has produced fabulous results. It encouraged me throughout my years of writing for Sophie Woman’s Magazine, and it prompted me to write for ZMI Family Ministries International, then known as Zookeepers Ministries. While I didn’t receive monetary compensation, these opportunities created name-awareness, improved my writing skills, and provided experience in meeting deadlines. PLUS… I met a retired LifeWay editor through ZMI. She connected me with LifeWay’s head of adult publishing, who connected me with my current editor for Journey Magazine. God is so good!

As you aim to move forward in your writing career, which of these steps will you take next?

Note: Portions of this post first appeared in “Writer Steps” on May 1, 2018 at www.proclaiminghimtowomen.com.

Feeling overwhelmed or perplexed about how to progress as a writer? Consider three steps that will enhance your writing career. via @emilywickhamPH @MaryAFelkins #ChristianWriter #WritingTips #SeriouslyWrite

EMILY WICKHAM seeks to stir hearts toward Jesus. She writes for Journey Magazine, a LifeWay publication, speaks at ladies’ events, and shares “Devotions for Women” videos on social media. Emily encourages Christian women plus equips Christian writers on her blog, www.proclaiminghimtowomen.com. She is the author of one Bible study, which was translated into Spanish in 2016. Emily, a resident of North Carolina, is Mark’s wife of 29+ years. They are the blessed parents of four children and one daughter-in-love. God’s faithfulness and love inspire Emily on her journey through life as she purposes to exalt Christ through written and spoken words.

Connect with Emily:
Website: www.proclaiminghimtowomen.com
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Twitter: www.twitter.com/emilywickhamPH
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Alcanzando la Justicia:
Whether you’re a Spanish-speaking sister who longs to grow closer to Christ, or you’re looking for a Spanish Bible study to use for outreach in your community, please consider using Alcanzando la Justicia. It guides women through the book of Esther, challenging them to grow in righteous behavior—to make God-honoring choices each day. Daily prayers, Scripture readings, observation sections, author reflections, and application questions are included. This workbook is designed for individual or group use and contains instructions for following a one month, ten week, or thirty-one week schedule.

See Emily’s website for special offers or purchase the book on Amazon.

Thursday, August 22, 2019

Enjoying the Journey by Sally Shupe

As you start on a journey, enjoy the trip, take in the passing scenery. Who knows what you might find. One year, we got lost coming back from vacation. We passed a paved lot with a bunch of parked airplanes. I thought it was so cool. If we hadn’t gotten lost, I would have never seen it. Another time, our family went on vacation with friends of ours. We got lost. My friend and I (Hi, Sandy!) thought it was funny. When we finally crossed over into another state, we got out of the car and ran around the sign. As you can see, it is not vacation unless we get lost at least once. I think the record is getting lost three times trying to get somewhere for vacation. GPS is not my friend!

When I started running, I had a hard time. Come to find out, you need muscles that I didn’t have at the time in order to run. Needless to say, I was slow. But as I continued running, I noticed flowers, bushes, the breeze, the way the sun lit up spider webs in the grass. Even though I was having a hard time running, I could still enjoy the things around me.

How does getting lost on vacation and struggling with running have to do with writing? I’ll tell you. Enjoy the journey! Are you struggling with getting words on a page? Struggling with finishing your first book, or tenth? Struggling with getting published? Enjoy the journey! There are so many things to see along the way.

Writing your first word, leads to two words, which leads to a complete sentence, a paragraph, a page, a chapter, a completed book. But at the end, what do you have? Words on paper. Now imagine that same journey, interacting with other writers, readers who enjoy the genre you write, writing blogs where you can interact with others in the industry. Do you know what you’ve done? Opened doors that can lead to friendships, a critique partner, encouraging tips, an agent, maybe even a publisher. If all you do is take a trip and not pay attention to the scenery you pass, you’ve missed half the journey. If you go for a run, a walk, a hike, but don’t actually see where you’re running, walking, or hiking, you’re missing the added benefits. It’s the same with writing. If all you do is put words on a page, you are missing what you can learn along the way: new editing skills, friendships with potential readers, maybe even an agent connection or a publishing contact. Writing can be a solitary journey, but it doesn’t have to be. And when you’re struggling, the best thing is to have encouragers around you, cheering you on. Who knows what you might find?

So, reach out to the ones around you. Enjoy the writing journey, how you get from point a to b, the people you encounter, the skills you acquire, and have fun!

How do you keep your writing journey from being a lonely experience? I’d love to hear from you.

Sally Shupe lives in southwest Virginia with her husband, two grown kids-a daughter still at home and a son nearby, and a whole bunch of pets: five dogs, three cats, a rabbit, and birds at the birdfeeder (and the mandatory snowman when the snow cooperates). She writes contemporary Christian romance, with two completed manuscripts and three more in progress. They are part of a series located in small town Virginia.

When Sally’s not writing or working full-time, she is a freelance editor for several authors who write fiction and nonfiction; students working on dissertation papers; a copy editor for Desert Breeze; a content editor for Prism (became part of Pelican); performs beta reading for various authors; publishes book reviews on her blog and with Valley Business FRONT’s monthly magazine; is a member of ACFW and a PRO member of RWA; loves genealogy, running, and crocheting.

Sally uses her love of words to write about God’s amazing love.

Connect with Sally:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sallyshupewritings/
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Thursday, October 25, 2018

When You Don't Think You're Good Enough by Robin E. Mason



Every writer, truly every artist, at some time or another, feels unworthy. That their work falls short of some standard. And perhaps, sometimes it does.

But I’ve learned something—perfection is a cruel and impossible taskmaster, excellence a kinder, more forgiving goal. We all have them, those days we can conquer anything. And we do. We tick off those items on our never-ending to-do list, and settle with a good cuppa to enjoy the fruit of our labors. Other days, though, our 112% barely grazes one or two of those bits. Bits that have become insurmountable.

I don’t know about you, but those days crush me. Or, they used to. And when I was striving for the elusive and impossible perfection, those days were EVERY day.

But two things happened. Or, rather, one thing precipitated the other—God’s grace relieved me of an impossible burden, and with that, the freedom to grow and excel in my writing. Still, those days creep in sometimes. And what are we to do when that happens?

I offer you what I used to tell my kids when somebody said something about them; ask yourself one question: “Is it true?” When those niggling doubts creep in—“Your writing is abominable.” “This story is stupid.” “That character just isn’t believable.” “No one wants to read this!—ask yourself if it’s true.”

Does no one really want to read this? Ah! This is the question, isn’t it? To me, this is the heart of why we write. Whether “just” for entertainment or with deep spiritual meaning, do we not write for others to read? I know I do. Of course I’d love to be a New York Times bestseller. Why wouldn’t I want my stories made into movies?

But even if that never happens, even if I never sold another book—HUSH MY MOUTH!—I know I have an Audience who will never disparage or belittle my writing. Coach me, yes. Encourage me, certainly. But never will He shred my efforts, no matter how weak.

I write, we all write, ultimately for an Audience of One. One who has instilled in us our love of and passion for, and dare I say, skill with words. And when He is pleased with our efforts, if not our finesse, then who are we to argue?

Do we stop striving to our best? Not at all. Does this mean we can be lazy and sloppy? Certainly not. We offer our very best to Him. And He is pleased with that.

I saw a quote the other day, attributed to Priscilla Shirer:
And that’s exactly it.

The next time you feel you don’t measure up—and there will be a next time—remember Who holds the measuring stick. And gauge yourself by His measure.

“Maybe you have to know the darkness to truly appreciate the light.” —Madeline L’Engle

 Robin E. Mason writes stories of identity conflict. Her characters encounter situations that force the question, “Who am I really?” For all who have ever wondered who you are or why you’re here, her stories will touch you in a very real—maybe too real—and very deep way. “I know, I write from experience.”

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Thursday, June 28, 2018

Just Be Yourself by Patti Jo Moore


Most likely at some time or another, we’ve all been given the age-old advice, “Just be yourself, and you’ll do fine.” Maybe when we were in school and had to stand before our class to give a dreaded book report (Ugh! I did *not* like doing those), or attending a social gathering where we knew no one, many of us have been encouraged by a parent or friend to be ourselves. If you think about it, that’s really good advice, because usually folks can tell if someone is trying to imitate or be someone they’re not (or “putting on airs” as we say here in the south). 😉

It recently occurred to me that this is true in our writing, also. As writers, we’re told to “find our voice” and work hard to be the best writer we can be. Yet sometimes we read books written by well-known, award-winning authors and start thinking that maybe our books would sell better (or garner more awards) if our writing style and voice closely imitated those authors we admire. If we’re not careful, that silent self-talk of doubt will creep in, telling us our writing isn’t up to par. Although everyone, I’m guessing, has been visited by those pesky negative voices, we must learn to ignore them. Yes, easier said than done, I know. But if necessary, contact a writing buddy or mentor and share with them what you’re feeling, and they can give you the needed pep talk to help you get back to focusing on your writing rather than the feelings of doubt. I will insert here that for me personally, prayer and reading uplifting Bible verses also help. For those of us who truly feel called to write in this season of our lives, meditating on a few Scriptures can do wonders. 😊

So while we do need to read books by various authors and in different genres, and work very hard to improve our writing, it’s so important to stay true to our own, unique voice. Because we never know who might read our words and be impacted by them. Maybe your story contains a faith thread woven in, and it happens to be exactly what a reader needed at that time—you never know! Or maybe your story provides a good dose of entertainment that helps a reader escape life’s troubles, even for a little while. I was reminded of this a few months ago. My very first book (a clean, sweet romance) had been published about two months earlier, and one day I received a Facebook message from a long-ago friend (I’ll call him Tom). We’d been casual friends decades ago in college, but hadn’t been in touch except for connecting on Facebook a while back. I had no idea that Tom was battling cancer until I read his message. He wrote that he’d gotten a copy of my book and it had been a very good diversion for him as he underwent cancer treatments. Wow. I told my husband that if Tom was the only person my story had helped or entertained, my entire writing journey—trials and all—was so worth it. We just never know who our words might touch, so we need to write those words and not try to copy anyone else. We need to just be ourselves, because…as the very old saying goes, “There’s no one else quite like you.” 😊   

Gracie Norton has happily relocated from north Georgia to a quaint community on Florida’s gulf coast. Since she loves children and animals, she’s thankful for her new job as a veterinary assistant, and she’s drawn to the precious twins who’ve moved in next door. Their handsome but reserved father is a different story, however.

Widower Blake Donovan hopes moving his young twins to a small coastal town will give them all a fresh start. Yet his dissatisfaction with his job and his unwanted, growing attraction for his pretty neighbor are frustrating him. He wonders if he will ever feel a sense of peace again.

When a serious situation occurs, Gracie must overcome her biggest fear to help Blake and his twins. In doing so, she realizes how much she cares for the children and their father. Blake’s medical emergency results in a restoration of his faith—and helps him realize he can’t deny his feelings for Gracie. Could young twins be the matchmakers to bring about an unexpected romance?


Amazon Buy Link:  An Unexpected Romance

Patti Jo Moore is a life-long Georgia girl who loves writing sweet, Southern stories. She also loves Jesus, her family, cats, and coffee, and is blessed with the most precious grandbaby ever. Her very first book, A Seaside Romance, released in December, and her second book, An Unexpected Romance, just released this month (both are from Forget-Me-Not Romance). Both books are available on Amazon, in print and Kindle form. Patti Jo loves people, and you can connect with her on Facebook at Author Patti Jo Moore, or on her blog:    http://catmomscorner.blogspot.com 

Thursday, March 15, 2018

LESSONS FROM LEVI: How observations of my cat remind me of my writing journey By Patti Jo Moore

Hello, my name is Patti Jo and I am a Cat Lady.  

I will admit it. In addition to being a retired kindergarten teacher and newly-published author, I will openly admit I LOVE cats. Since I also love books and writing, I recently thought about the similarities in the mannerisms of my cats (all six of them, but particularly Levi) and my writing journey. 

Whether you’re a veteran writer or brand-new to this wonderful—and sometimes discouraging—journey, you’re certain to find out that it’s not all fun and games (or contracts and contest awards), but rather a lot of hard work. And waiting. Persevering is essential, because if a writer wants to be published, she/he must persevere. When I observe Levi trying to retrieve a toy mouse from underneath the sofa, I notice his perseverance. He knows he wants that toy mouse, and he’s determined to reach it with his paw. If a writer’s goal is to be published, then in addition to learning the craft and writing the best story possible, the writer has to keep trying. Sometimes over and over. For years and years.

Developing a “thick skin” is vital—and this can be a real challenge for those of us who tend to be sensitive. Susanna (one of my female cats) adores Levi; yet I’ve witnessed a time when Susanna was quite perturbed that Levi was in her napping spot, so she promptly swatted him with her paw. Poor Levi simply turned away, overlooking his sister’s feisty mood. How wonderful if writers could handle less-than-kind comments about our writing with the same acceptance. Sometimes the comments/suggestions certainly do have validity. Other times the reader might be in a ‘feisty mood’ and the author’s writing receives comments that should not be taken to heart. And of course rejections from agents and editors can be difficult to accept, especially if we’ve gotten our hopes up anticipating a positive response. Yet if we can remember those rejections are part of this journey, so we must move on, continue working hard, and keep a hopeful, positive outlook, how much better we’d feel. (Yes, sometimes easier said than done, I know).

Not long ago I was feeling extremely tired as I strived to write a certain amount of words in one day. By afternoon I’d reached the point of feeling I was in a daze. A daze that no amount of coffee and M&Ms could snap me from, and I was frustrated. Glancing from my desk over to the bed, I saw Levi (and several other kitties) snoozing away. I simply needed a nap! No, this isn’t rocket-science, but sometimes we writers become so determined and focused that we fail to ignore what is needed at that moment. I closed my laptop, sleepily headed to the bed, and joined several felines in a nap. I’m happy to say that after my thirty-minute snooze I was refreshed and able to tackle that manuscript with a fresh perspective. And make my word-count goal. 

As a Christian, for me personally the most important aspect of my writing journey is seeking the Lord’s will and writing the stories He would have me to write. I’ll admit that as smart as Levi is, I haven’t seen him actually reading the Bible.😉 But one day as Levi sat next to my Bible on the kitchen table, it was a reminder that I’d not had my quiet time with the Lord that day. I’ve found my writing and my day in general flows more smoothly when I’ve had time in the Scriptures. 

No matter where you are in your writing journey, I hope you’re enjoying the process. And if you’re having a day that’s left you feeling frazzled and frustrated, maybe you just need to take a little break or even have a catnap. Who knows? You might return to your writing with such renewed energy it’s as if you have nine lives. 

South Georgia farm girl Emma Hopkins hopes to put her past behind her as she moves to a lovely community on the Florida gulf coast. Tired of living in fear from a past relationship, she enjoys working in her aunt’s gift shop.

For three years businessman Thomas Wilton has carried guilt for his sister’s car accident that left her in a wheelchair. When his boss insists moving from Alabama to the Florida panhandle will be beneficial for his career, Thomas reluctantly agrees, although he hates leaving his sister.

After Emma and Thomas meet, a relationship quickly develops, but is later jeopardized by a misunderstanding. When Emma’s life is threatened, Thomas realizes how much he loves her.  Can their seaside romance become a happily-ever-after?
 
 
 
Patti Jo Moore writes Sweet, Southern Stories which is fitting since she’s lived in Georgia her entire life. After teaching first grade and kindergarten for twenty-one years, Patti Jo had to retire early due to severe spinal/back issues (resulting in four surgeries). She realized the ending of her teaching career was the beginning of her writing career—and she loves what she’s doing. In 2017 the Lord blessed her with her first grandbaby and her first publishing contract—and she’s still smiling about both. Her first book is A Seaside Romance published by Forget-Me-Not books (available on Amazon in print and for Kindle), and she will have two more books in her Emerald Coast Romances series. Patti Jo loves Jesus, her family, and cats, and loves meeting new friends. Connect with her on Facebook:   Author Patti Jo Moore or her CatMom’s Corner blog: http://catmomscorner.blogspot.com
 

Monday, March 12, 2018

Encouragement for the Downtrodden

by Peter Leavell @peterleavell

I pointed to one of my friend’s books and said, “This one is my favorite.”

“Really? Why? It’s not my bestseller.” Her attention turned from potential customers to me.

“I never read for entertainment.” I picked up the book and ran my finger across the pages to feel the slight breeze against my palm. “Well, hardly. I’m always looking for the takeaway. And this,” I said, holding up her own book in front of her face, “Is your heart. I can tell. I learned something, first about you. And next about myself.” I set the book back on the pile.

Her face reddened. “It was a hard time in my life, and I’m just now able to talk about it.” She glanced into my eyes searching. I guessed she was looking for the condemnation I didn’t feel. “He hurt me. And I’m now coming to terms with the fact that it wasn’t my fault.”

I wanted to know more about specifics, and wondered if I was close enough friends to push. 


She decided for me. “He made me believe all our problems were my fault.” Her eyes misted, but she managed to hold back the tears. “I’m coming to terms with how a person like that manipulates those around him.”

“You taught me how a male acquaintance can deal with a man like that.” I purposefully turned to the side, hoping to be less threatening as I ‘mansplained’ what I'd learned. I condensed my thoughts into a concise little speech, about thirty seconds.

“Thank you,” she whispered. She'd taken a step toward me. “Sometimes, I wonder, if… well, you know.”

“I didn’t. But I know now.”

I hope she walked away with validation. Maybe a bit of encouragement. It’s hard to write deep issues these days. Many readers want to escape their problems and don't care for characters with brutal heartaches.

I know a writer who rents a hotel room for seven days, writes her novel using characters made up on the spot, and ships it off to editors to rewrite and edit. Sometimes the novel hits the best seller list. Sometimes it just sells well.

I’m not talking about her now.

I’m reaching out to authors whose relationships and lives have been destroyed, and when they have a bit of a pulse again, hold out their fragile but wiser heart and show the world.
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They write as the Bible was written, not as a list of doctrines or a study of abstract Theology, but a story of God and his love for His creation. Of our rejection of Him and His forgiveness. Of Truth.

These authors have a handful of readers.

(Publishers frown when writers only have a handful of readers.)

Life is suffering. We can try to escape, creating counter facts not quite reflecting reality, or we can grow. And as we change through suffering and embrace Christ—as we mature through our pain—a part of us dies and the rest grows stronger. Frightening. Maybe we’d rather stay the same and not change.

Suffering is real. But human beings are at their best when immersed in something challenging. 

Writer, your calling is so rare, so unique as to demand your very best. You’re always training. For writing. And for life.

So, we take the time to do this one thing exceptionally well. We write our pain, knowing our readers can never exhaust the story’s wisdom.

To you, writer, I tell you, your journey is made easier through relationships and wisdom. Long for Christ. Find other writers who search for Christ’s face. Read everything you can get your hands on. Throw out the mediocre and the bad. Share the best.
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My friends. Broken hearts are mendable. Know you’re loved, and as you close your eyes and listen for the sound of your name being whispered by Christ, remember the moment.

And when you write your story, know that there will be a handful of readers who own a copy of your book, the pages worn, the ink tired, the spine bent. But the story is alive and fresh. Because they never exhaust your story's wisdom.

And there, my friends, lies true joy. Not the happiness of commercial success, but true felicity when touching lives with the light of Christ.

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Peter Leavell, a 2007 graduate of Boise State University with a degree in history, was the 2011 winner of Christian Writers Guild's Operation First Novel contest, and 2013 Christian Retailing's Best award for First-Time Author. Peter and his family live in Boise, Idaho. Learn more about Peter's books, research, and family adventures at www.peterleavell.com.
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Siblings Josh and Abby Hunter don’t believe their parents’ death was an
accident. After taking pictures of the most incredible find of the 1920’s—proof humans and dinosaurs lived together in the same time and place—desperate outlaws armed with tommy guns are on their tail! Only Josh and Abby know where the proof is hidden—in the canyons of Arizona’s desert. When an intruder searches Josh and Abby’s bags inside their new home, the two convince their uncle Dr. David Hunter to return to the canyon and find the pictures they’d hidden. But the outlaws are just as eager to find the proof before Josh and Abby. Can Josh use his super-smart brain to outfox the villains in time? Will Abby’s incredible physical abilities stop full-grown men? And will their uncle believe them? 

Dino Hunters is an apologetics-adventure series aimed at the middle reader to help them trust the Bible from the very first verse.








Thursday, July 21, 2016

We Need Each Other by Heidi Chiavaroli

When I was growing up, my mother used to tell me a story about my great-great-grandmother. My mémère lived to be one hundred and two, and guess what? She was a writer.

She wrote a book when she was a young adult. And of course, back then, you didn’t just click a mouse and send off a query. You sent the whole kit and caboodle. Every chapter, every page, every sentence you had sweat over. All of it, off to an editor who would hopefully mail your baby back to you.

Well, my grandmother’s manuscript did get returned. Rejected. And, not having any other person’s encouragement or opinion, my grandmother destroyed her hard work. She took the rejection to mean she didn’t have what it took. She couldn’t be a writer.

I’m convinced that if I lived in the same time as my grandmother, that would have also been me. But because I live in a different time, with different opportunities, I was encouraged in different ways. If you don’t have the support you need as a writer, consider seeking out an option or two below.

National Writer’s Groups and Organizations – When I first felt the urge to write seriously ten years ago, I went to one of my favorite author’s websites. Karen Kingsbury listed a number of writing organizations and I picked the one I thought would suit me best—American Christian Fiction Writers. They were phenomenal. Not only did they hook me up with a critique group, which I am still with, but they gave me a scholarship to attend my first national conference, where I met a handful of amazing women who have encouraged me over the years. It’s been fun to watch some of them go on to become bestselling authors. 

Local Groups – If you prefer meeting with other writers in person, check out your local library. Chances are someone knows of a local group of writers.

Critique Groups – Okay, I know I mentioned this above, but really, I can’t talk critique partners up enough! You can sharpen one another’s writing, and encourage at the same time. I don’t know how many times I’ve felt ready to give up only to have one or both of my critique partners encourage me. No one can encourage like another writer. Share the journey.

Conferences – Not only can you meet agents and editors in the industry at conferences, but you can form more connections with other writers, both new and farther along on the journey. No one can encourage you, sympathize with you, and rejoice with you, like other writers!

Websites and Blogs (Such as this one!) – Many authors have resources for writers on their websites. Or subscribe to blogs such as this one to get that daily encouragement.

There’s one thing all these options have in common: they each connect us to other writers. 

Writing can be a solitary journey. But I’m convinced that if my grandmother had any of these resources at her disposal, she wouldn’t have felt so badly after that first rejection. She may have continued to write, maybe even kept her stories for me to read one day.

We need each other! So don’t be a stranger. Speak up, get connected, and get writing!

Heidi Chiavaroli is an author, runner, wife, mother, and grace-clinger—not necessarily in that order. Ever since taking her first trip to Plimoth Plantation with her sister, mother, and grandmother at the age of nine, she has been fascinated with history and its significance to today’s people and culture. Heidi is the winner of ACFW’s 2014 Genesis Contest, Historical Category. Her debut novel will release next year from Tyndale Publishers. She lives in Massachusetts with her husband, two sons, and Howie, her standard poodle. Learn more about Heidi on her website: www.heidichiavaroli.com

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Mapping Encouragement by Emily Conrad

Plants like six-inch tall Truffula trees lined the trail I hiked in the Canadian Rockies. I paused to snap pictures then continued to a mountain lake and on to a tree-sheltered meadow of poppy red, gold, and white wildflowers. 


After that, the inclines became steeper—or maybe my legs were fatigued. Distant mountains disappeared into mist that swallowed scenery closer and closer to me. Soaking rain was moving in. I consulted the map and hurried to shelter.

That hike resembles the writing life. Wonders dot the journey, but it also has its share of uphill stretches, fatigue, and difficulties. Then a storm rolls in, showering us with doubt and worry, and we need a map to guide us to an emotional shelter.


Whether you’ve just started your writing journey or you’re miles down the trail, pausing here to chart an encouragement map will help prepare you for whatever waits around the next bend.


Step 1 – Choose your format

Maps come in all forms—phone GPS to globes. Likewise, an encouragement map can be a physical file, an electronic document, or a series of sealed envelopes. I chose to create a document on my desktop titled “Click Here.”

Step 2 – Add a compass rose

As Christian writers, the Bible is our ultimate compass. Save some Bible verses that will speak to you in times of discouragement. My document includes Luke 1:45 and Isaiah 50:4.

Step 3 – Outline the basic landmarks.

Mine your archives for positives from friends, readers, critique partners, or contest judges. If you’re newer, look for encouragement from family to take the leap into writing or a blog post that inspired you to write in the first place. Your own journal might have something encouraging or insightful to keep you going in tough times. Anything that reminds you of where you’re going and why can go into your map.

Step 4 – Add detail

When you receive encouraging words, take a moment to type or paste them into your file. The more the merrier!

Step 5 – Provide Maps for your Friends

Don’t just collect encouragement; spread praise around. It’ll build a stronger community of writers around you, and yours may be the word that keeps someone going through their own valley.

Step 6 – Read the Map

On those days when you’re not sure why—or if—God called you to write, go to your file. Jesus is there for you in the Bible verses, reminding you of true north. Your friends, family, and co-journeyers are there, too, cheering you along the trail. 

Writing takes us through some rough country. This calling, this opportunity to be used by God in a hurting world, is too valuable a thing to lose to the wilderness of discouragement. Chart your map now. Tuck it in your pack, and carry it until you need it. 


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What has encouraged you along the writing journey?


About the Author
A Thing of Beauty by Emily Conrad

Emily Conrad's short stories are included in the anthologies A Bit of Christmas: 6 Christian Short Stories Celebrating the Season (Dec, 2015) and Sweet Mountain Love (upcoming, mid-2016). Her novel-length women's fiction is represented by Steven Hutson of WordWise Media. Connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, and EmilyConradAuthor.com.

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A Thing of Beauty

From a childhood spent in the shadow of her beautiful sister, artist Naomi knows true beauty is deeper than outward appearances. But when Naomi's relationship with her boyfriend, Emmerich, is challenged in unexpected ways, coping means moving beyond a definition of beauty and discovering its ultimate source.