My critique partner and I use a shared Dropbox folder for sending chapters back and forth. Whenever I open her next file to critique, which is usually the morning after she uploaded it, a little popup tells me how long since the file was last edited. Counting backward that number of hours, I am often stunned to find she was still working on her chapter as late as 2:00 a.m.!
For a fleeting moment, I wonder, Am I such a slacker? I mean, this lady is not only a multi-published historical romance novelist but also a crazy-busy wife, mother, homeschooler, and part-time private school teacher. How does she do it???
As for me? In order to function at all, I require a semi-regular routine and eight hours of sleep every night. My writing week runs Monday-Friday, typically 10:00 a.m. to no later than 5:30 or 6:00 p.m. We’ve had a (mostly) empty nest for the last quarter-century, and my husband has been fully retired for about 10 years, so he’s taken over most of the grocery shopping, cooking, and laundry. I’ve got it easy, right? So why am I not churning out the books faster?Oh, the comparison trap! It’ll lure you in every time.
- “My best writer friend already has three book contracts—but I can’t even get a request!”
- “Why can’t I write books as fast as Author X?”
- “I know my book is better than Author Y’s, but her novel keeps winning awards!”
- “Why isn’t my novel getting 5-star reviews like Author Z’s?”
You may need to stick with the generally accepted “rules” regarding plot, structure, characterization, dialogue, etc. But in other aspects of the writing life, feel free to find your own way. Above all, trust the God who gave you the talent and desire to write stories for Him, and always follow His lead.
When tempted to compare yourself with other writers, where are you most vulnerable? What helps you resist?
Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others.—Galatians 6:4, The Message
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