Friday, January 29, 2010

Encouraging Story of My Journey by Christina Berry

Last year, I met Christina at the ACFW writer's conference. (Come to think of it, Dawn was standing right beside me when we greeted her.) We'd discussed my reviewing her fantastic book The Familiar Stranger. This Fortifying Friday she shares her journey to publication story with us. Enjoy!

Encouraging Story of My Journey
by Christina Berry

More than a decade ago, my mother (Sherrie Ashcraft) said, “Let’s write a book together.” For years we’d talked about wanting to be writers; her from second grade on, me from ninth grade. I’m a slow bloomer, I guess. But she knew that without the accountability of working as a team, we would never get started.

So we spent two years writing THE BEST BOOK EVER. We did have to find out little things like how long a book should be and how to submit to publishers, but once we finished our precious little baby, we knew that editors would be knocking on our door.

We heard of a contest called The Noble Theme (now the Genesis) sponsored by American Christian Romance Writers (now American Christian Fiction Writers/ACFW). One thing about writers is that they let the power of being able to name characters and books and their children go to their heads, and randomly start renaming contests and organizations. Anyway, we sent in our submission and sat back, planning our acceptance speech. Months later we received out feedback sheets with a score equivalent to a D. What, a D???

Turns out we had no clue how to write a book: how to stay in one POV(Point of View) a scene, how to plot or pace or describe, how to write conversation. In short, we had a heap of learning to do. Enter OCW(Oregon Christian Writers) and ACFW. The one-day seminars and days-long coaching conferences taught us an incredible amount. Funny though … only after we went home and put our seats in chairs and hands on keyboards, forcing words out of our brains, did we actually learn to write.

The rejections became requests for proposals, then full book requests, yet editors stopped just shy of contracting the book. Time passed; we kept working.

My mother spent the summer of 2006 with her dying mother-in-law and couldn’t concentrate much on writing.

Two stories appeared in the newspapers that summer and would not get out of my head. I wondered, “If they had a baby, what would that little tale look like?” The plot of a novel fell into my lap, working title of Undiscovered and tagline of, “An accident that isn’t; secrets that won’t be.” I took four months to write it, sent it to a freelance editor, bled over her edits, placed second in the 2008 Genesis Contemporary category (redemption!), and had two offers within weeks of hearing the results. Me, the person who had logged more hard rejections than years on earth, had two offers. My favorite rejection was one I received AFTER selling the book!

I chose the house that best fit my style of fiction and never looked back. Being with Moody Publishers has been an incredible experience. They’ve spoiled me for working with any other house, I do believe. The Familiar Stranger released in September ’09, hopefully launching a long, fruitful career. I’d love to have enough clout to rename an organization sometime.

Here's a bit about her book, The Familiar Stranger.

Craig Littleton's decision to end his marriage would shock his wife, Denise . . . if she knew what he was up to. When an accident lands Craig in the ICU, with fuzzy memories of his own life and plans, Denise rushes to his side, ready to care for him.

They embark on a quest to help Craig remember who he is and, in the process, they discover dark secrets. An affair? An emptied bank account? A hidden identity? An illegitimate child?

But what will she do when she realizes he's not the man she thought he was? Is this trauma a blessing in disguise, a chance for a fresh start? Or will his secrets destroy the life they built together?


(Read Annette's review at Net's Book Notes.)

As a single mom and foster parent, Christina Berry carves time out of her busy schedule to write about the heart and soul of life. She’s one of those crazies who enjoys Math and Literature, majoring in both with a minor in French. All that confusion must have influenced her decision to be team captain of a winning team on Family Feud. Get to know her better at www.christinaberry.net or www.authorchristinaberry.blogspot.com Sign up for her infrequent, humorous newsletter at either site and you might win free, autographed books for life or a 4GB iPod Shuffle! Purchase your copy of The Familiar Stranger here.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Willing to Be Vulnerable

Thursdays - Devotions for Writers

"Instead, speaking the truth in love,
we will in all things grow up into him who is the
Head, that is Christ."
(Ephesians 4:15 NIV)


Speaking the truth in love can mean different things to different people. It can be as simple as telling a friend at a party that she has spinach stuck between her teeth. For some, it’s sharing God’s word. For others, it includes confronting another person with gentleness about a wrong doing, and then encouraging the individual to make changes.

What would happen if we interpreted “speaking the truth” as being vulnerable in our writing?

Of course, boundaries are important. I would never want to disclose information that would hurt someone. But I believe most people have experienced (personally, or through someone they know) at least one of the following: broken relationships, physical pain, trauma, grief, serious illness, financial hardship, job loss, divorce, addictions, depression, relocation, etc.

You see, through a willingness to be vulnerable and dig deep into our experiences and emotions, we can lay words down that are honest and will resonate with our readers. Yes, it can be scary. We may not want to go there. It may bring up unpleasant memories . . .

But . . . by wearing masks and continuing to pretend we’re perfect people . . . we’re not serving our purpose, which is to help others “grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ.”

I'm encouraged and grow in my faith when a writer is willing to be transparent. In their humanness, I see myself. And because the writer has experienced victory, I believe that I can also be victorious.

Devotions touch hearts when messages are relevant.

Articles teach when words don’t sugar coat the Christian life.

Novels inspire and encourage when the characters have depth and feel like real people.

Being vulnerable isn’t just about sharing the bad feelings we’ve experienced. With it also comes the freedom to express our joy with abandonment. Let’s not hesitate to also talk about the good things He’s done in our lives.

Let’s speak the truth in love, so that we in all things can grow in Christ.

Dawn

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Discouragement in Writing by Andrea Kuhn Boeshaar

This Writer’s Journey Wednesday, please welcome author, speaker, and certified Christian life coach, Andrea Kuhn Boeshaar.

Discouragement in Writing:
How a Christian life coach can help

Discouragement: It’s the state of being discouraged, deprived of confidence and courage. Like an ugly weed in a beautiful flower garden, discouragement can creep into our lives and choke off our happiness.


It can also keep us from writing.

But a Christian life coach can help in the following ways.

1) Faith, Hope, & Love

A Christian coach can and will encourage you in your faith and help you regain a focus on Jesus Christ and take your eyes off yourself and your situation. What are we doing under the circumstances anyway? As Christian authors, we need to be continually looking up. Even the most impossible deadline isn’t too impossible for God.

In essence, a life coach can help you turn your thinking around, from yourself to God.

2) Purpose

I don’t agree with everything author, Rick Warren writes; however, I do agree with this quote from his book The Purpose Driven Life:

"It’s not about you. The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It’s far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God. You were born by his purpose and for his purpose.”

A Christian life coach can help you realize your own purpose.

3) Goal setting

Once you realize what your purpose is, you can begin to set goals. A life coach can help you determine whether those goals are realistic.

Many times setting unrealistic goals and not meeting them can bring discouragement.

4) Accountability

Weekly phone calls and intermittent emails to your life coach will help you stay on track and accomplish your goals.

5) Setting boundaries

As Christians we want to serve God by helping others and being a blessing to them. However, many people will take advantage of that “goodness” we feel inside and then relationships can becomes toxic and energy draining. It especially hurts when those relationships involve people we love and/or family members. They play upon our obligatory senses and when these relationships take root in our lives, they eat away our God time, family time…and writing time. Suddenly we can feel stressed and overwhelmed.

A life coach can help you gain renewed awareness of these toxic relationships and energy drainers by helping you set boundaries.
Remember, God can heal any and all broken things, including relationships, but sometimes He wants us to get out of His way so He can work in both our hearts and the other person(s) who are involved.

Discouragement. We’ve all experienced it at one time or another. But it doesn’t have to take root, causing depression, bitterness, and even envy. Hiring a Christian life coach can help you take important steps to eradicate discouragement right where it grows: In our hearts!


In 1994, Andrea Boeshaar's first novel was published. Since then she's written numerous articles and devotionals. Andrea has also published inspiration romance novels, women's fiction, and novellas. In the year 2000, Andrea cofounded the American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW). She served as its vice president and then, later, its CEO. In 2003, Andrea joined the Hartline Literary Agency and worked as a literary agent. She saw much success. But then in 2007, Andrea realized she was more of a teacher/encourager than a sales person. She left the agency and became a certified Christian life coach. Now, in addition to her writing, Andrea enjoys encouraging others to use their God-given talents and gifts to their fullest. Her next novel, Unwilling Warrior, will be released in May 2010. Find out more at http://www.andreaboeshaar.com/

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

The Author's Character Series - Courage



Net's Notations Tuesdays
The Author's Character Series

Courage

Accusing voices mocked me when I saw the notice come up about an upcoming booksigning. I wouldn’t participate. After all, it’s for well-established authors, right? I have a little book from a small press. What can I bring?

Remember how we talked about faithfulness on a recent Net’s Notations Tuesday? Well, there I was disqualifying myself and letting the accusing voices intimidate me.

What’s the antidote to all that self doubt? Courage!

What about when a rejection letter comes in the mail (or email)? Ugh… You’ve waited months and finally a word, but it’s not the one you want—a big NO. Now what?

Here’s what happens to me. I usually handle the rejection fine in the moment. But later, for a few days (at least), it really begins to eat away at my confidence. (Which probably means I didn’t process it fully in that first instance.) What rejection can lead to, though, is my not wanting to submit anything again. Multi-published inspirational romance author Colleen Reece has a solution for this. You get a rejection one day, you get your project back out the next. What great advice. That’d keep you hoping for a positive response. And odds are, someday a "YES" will come!

I’ve learned that doubts don’t disappear once you’re published. Multi-published writers have to beat back the monster, too. For them, it’s critical reviews, negative reader letters, or editors who reject their latest work.

So, what do you do when intimidation or doubt creeps into your writing life?

Embrace courage!

Courage is intentional. You can’t just accidentally happen upon courage. It’s inside you. So, when a tough situation presents, you have a choice—fight or flight, right? So, fighting (or facing the issue at hand and pushing through) is a choice—it’s intentional.

Courage is the sign of a mature writer, a mature person. If you’re a man or woman of courage, congratulations on embracing this virtue. If not, let’s press in and let God refine this part of our author’s character.