Showing posts with label Refuge. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Refuge. Show all posts

Friday, December 4, 2015

Assessing National Novel Writing Month by Melinda Viergever Inman


Melinda Viergever Inman

Assessing National Novel Writing Month

Some of you have just come staggering out of NaNoWriMo. The past month is a haze. You now have a very rough draft, a family that is tired of eating pizza, and a house you were barely able to throw together for Thanksgiving and the Christmas season. Everyone is still grousing.

Happy holidays. Merry Christmas.

Writing a novel is a time to listen to the voices, disappear into your imaginary world, and become acquainted with your characters. But you've done this while running headlong into two sacred holidays that are weighted with the best pitches Madison Avenue can throw at us.

You're feeling a bit schizophrenic, as if you really might have tipped over into the crazy novelist stereotype. Your teenage daughter still isn't speaking to you because you were novel-distracted as she spilled her heart to you mid-draft. You hope your husband can find it in his heart to forgive you and that your younger children didn't suffer too much emotional damage. You had to meet that word count.

How did you get into this mess? Where did all the craziness begin?

The history of NaNoWriMo: http://nanowrimo.org/history

National Novel Writing Month was started in San Francisco in 1999 for these reasons: "We wanted to write novels for the same dumb reasons twenty-somethings start bands. Because we wanted to make noise. Because we didn’t have anything better to do. And because we thought that, as novelists, we would have an easier time getting dates than we did as non-novelists."

If you're not a single twenty-something trolling for dates, you're writing with purpose and God's leading, and you do have something better to do in November, you may find NaNoWriMo doesn't work for you.

Personally, I can't think of a worse time of year to draft a novel. I’m glad I didn’t know about NaNoWriMo when I was first learning my process. By the time I did hear of it, I knew it wouldn’t work for me.

But, what about you?

If you participated, and it was a disaster that causes you to rue the day you ever heard of NaNoWriMo, take heart.

Likewise, if you participated, and it gave you the kick in the pants you needed to finally write that story, take heart.

Learning is part of becoming a successful writer. No matter the outcome, you have grown wiser. You can now write about that wisdom gained and utilize what you learned.

Writers are an independent breed. We must each find our own voice and discover the source of our writing mojo. We must each develop our own method. For some, writing is a mostly solitary, thoughtful activity completed at our own pace, not as part of a social movement. For others, writing in groups with a national focus is what we need to make it happen.

We must carefully consider our techniques. We must be purposeful. What works for one writer will not necessarily work for all, and maybe not even for that writer later in life.

Make your choices wisely. Learn from your mistakes.

As Christian writers, we attempt to write while cultivating thriving families, healthy marriages, and deepening walks with Christ. NaNoWriMo may or may not be the best way to accomplish those goals, or it might, depending on your process and who you are as a writer.

What do you think?

Did you participate? What did you learn? Will you do it again?





Nudged toward evil by Satan, Cain 's hard-hearted hubris results in Abel's murder and Lilith's broken heart when he is banished, splitting the family and propelling mankind toward ever-increasing violence as their siblings seek revenge. Crushed by what he's done, Cain runs, certain he's destroyed Lilith, his parents, and the entire family. With Satan hounding his every move and no idea of the forces arrayed against him, can Cain ever find God after he's committed a sin of such magnitude? Can he ever be forgiven?



Melinda Viergever Inman was raised in the tornado capital of the U.S. - Wakita, Oklahoma, of "Twister" fame. There her parents met. There her roots were sunk in a storytelling family. During years of relocation, tragedy struck. Wounded and heartbroken, Melinda forsook her roots and ran from herself and from God. A journey of trial and heartache brought her home again. A prodigal now returned to her secure foundation, she writes with passion, illustrating God's love for wounded people as he makes beauty from ashes. Fallen is her second novel, Refuge her first. Melinda shepherds women in church and prison ministry and writes inspirational material on her biweekly blog at http://melindainman.com/blog/ . With her family she is involved with Mission India, rescuing orphans and providing theological and job training for impoverished students— http://rimi.org/.


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Friday, October 2, 2015

Letting Love Rule by Melinda Viergever Inman




As Christian writers, we have a war within ourselves. Creativity can demand almost idolatrous obedience. We can worship our words, our writerly needs, and our artistic process. Simultaneously, our belief in Christ and the inward presence of his Spirit transform us into people who place others first, submit our work to the Lord, and have no other gods before him.

As we begin the writing journey, this tug of war is one of the first battles we face. How do we keep Christ first, people next, and our work in its place? How do we let love of God and of others rule?

We start by keeping our time in God's Word prioritized and our hearts attuned, ready to listen. His Spirit speaks to us gently, not with a whip like our creative monster sometimes may use, demanding precedence and obeisance.

Adapting my writing to fit the needs of my husband and children has been a work in progress. Initially, I didn't do well, so I laid writing aside for a season. Finally I began again, learning to stay balanced. Within my own family, I obtain daily practice, and thus, constant improvement in loving people ahead of task, calling, or deadline.

To help others, the Lord may have us take our writing with us. One of a writer's greatest blessings is that, when necessary, our trade is portable and relatively adaptable to different locations and schedules. As always, that's easier said than done.

Writing in a different place with interruptions or adjustments can make particular kinds of writing, such as drafting a novel, fraught with anxiety and pressure. We then work fast and sloppy. For other writing, such as editing, interruptions are more easily accommodated and can be a necessary part of the process, keeping our brains sharp.

With amazing speed, I can pack my computer and go watch my grandchildren when their parents travel. This is the type of interruption that grandmothers love.
My husband and I live far from our parents. Adjusting my writing to show unconditional love to our parents has been required on fewer occasions, but these events have not been commonplace.

As I prepared my first novel to be passed to my editor in 2013, my mother-in-law was dying. Love demanded adjusting my work to meet my husband's needs and her requests simultaneously. In order to help ease the loss, I did everything I could to accommodate both. As a result, he vanished for six weeks in various time chunks of traveling back and forth repeatedly, and we made the trip twice as a family.

The grief, traveling, and family pain that accompanied the loss of his mother caused tumultuous upheaval and a realization that I was woefully overcommitted. After the funeral I was completely depleted and caught Epstein Barr. The mononucleosis wiped me out, and I have yet to recover over two years later.

When I imagined the outcome of selling my stories, I didn't have this in mind. It definitely wasn't what I'd visualized!

But remember the promise that underlies even a believer's tragedy. God has promised that he will orchestrate for good everything that touches the lives of those who love him.

Remember my realization of over-commitment? Through my illness God brought good changes into my life. All but two activities have been eliminated. I now write, and I serve once a week in the prison. Now I can keep up with my family and prioritize my health.

This month I am far from home with computer and chronic health care equipment in tow.

My mother scheduled her major surgery, we scheduled my flight, and I prepared to head out. Of course, that was the moment my second novel returned from my content editor for my final edit. The Lord superintends my days. No matter how it plays out, he will work this together for my good.

As you strive for balance as a writer, listen to God’s voice. It's the gentle one. Are you learning to let love rule?




Nudged toward evil by Satan, Cain 's hard-hearted hubris results in Abel's murder and Lilith's broken heart when he is banished, splitting the family and propelling mankind toward ever-increasing violence as their siblings seek revenge. Crushed by what he's done, Cain runs, certain he's destroyed Lilith, his parents, and the entire family. With Satan hounding his every move and no idea of the forces arrayed against him, can Cain ever find God after he's committed a sin of such magnitude? Can he ever be forgiven?



Melinda Viergever Inman was raised in the tornado capital of the U.S.—Wakita, Oklahoma, of "Twister" fame. There her parents met. There her roots were sunk in a storytelling family. During years of relocation, tragedy struck. Wounded and heartbroken, Melinda forsook her roots and ran from herself and from God. A journey of trial and heartache brought her home again. A prodigal now returned to her secure foundation, she writes with passion, illustrating God's love for wounded people as he makes beauty from ashes. Refuge is her first novel. Melinda shepherds women in church and in prison ministry and writes inspirational material on her biweekly blog at http://melindainman.com/blog/. With her family she is involved with Mission India, rescuing orphans and providing theological and job training for impoverished students— http://rimi.org/.

You can learn more and connect with Melinda here:



 

Friday, September 4, 2015

Writing in Life Phases by Melinda Viergever Inman


Melinda Viergever Inman

When my house was full of young children, I attempted to draft my first novel. After only one chapter, I realized I couldn’t write fiction and homeschool a houseful of children simultaneously. Keep a journal, yes, but concentrate on fiction, no.

Maybe you can, or are attempting it. But I couldn’t.

For fiction, I must live in a different world, lose myself in the story, inhabit the characters’ thoughts, and focus inwardly on their setting and experiences. There I live in a writer’s fog. But, for homeschooling (my career), I needed to focus on my children. They were my priority.

After setting fiction aside, occasionally my mind wandered away, but I’d adjust my expectations and refocus on the schooling. I reminded myself that life came in phases, and there would be time later.

In these days of fringe hours, women seem to balance career and family flawlessly, so it might seem silly that I didn’t press on. But I had watched my mother do that. Learning from her experience, I knew something had to give. Fiction could wait. The children needed me now.

Two decades later, when only one child remained, I started writing fiction again. Even then, I admit, it was difficult to find balance. A few months in we held a powwow to tinker with our schedule. I learned to write fiction and to focus simultaneously on classical education, ancient history, and science papers.

Looking back at those four years of balancing the high school education of my daughter with the drafting of five novels, I remember the haze induced by pounding out a scene on my laptop, cross-legged on the floor in a loud ballet studio. Pausing, I’d watch each piece she danced solo or with the group, help with pointe shoe dilemmas, and regularly feel astonished by her gracefulness. I can still feel the urgency of working fast and sloppy to get it drafted before we jumped up and rushed to the next thing.

I dragged that laptop to play practices, hid in a quiet room at a friend’s lake house while the entire cast worked on a large dance number on the lawn, huddled in halls and libraries during my daughter’s science tutorage, and carried snippets of dialogue in my head as I raced her across town from one event to another.

But I cherish the memories of quiet mornings, each of us working at home, and the pauses with her in the coffee shop while we awaited the French tutor. Often the two of us enjoyed the pleasure of simply sitting and conversing.

In my memory, the stories I drafted are bound together with the events of those days. But I did it. Could I have multiplied the same lifestyle by five while her older siblings were all at home? Absolutely not! My brain isn’t wired that way.

For our family, my decision to wait was right.

But what about you?

Only you can make this determination. It requires prayer, careful consideration, and schedule tinkering, no matter what you decide. You must find what works for you, your family, and your life situation. Don’t measure yourself by anyone else.
           
If you’re attempting too much, chaos, conflict, and confusion may become the norm. If so, pause to reconsider. What must give? Can you live your life in phases? Can you write fiction later? For now, can you simply journal or blog?

Conversely, if you find yourself with big blocks of time that leave you frustrated and longing to write fiction, can you include fiction writing? Can you limit your “fiction brain” to those assigned hours? Can you maintain balance?

Put this before the Lord. He always knows best.

Then boldly follow wherever God directs. He will guide you.





Nudged toward evil by Satan, Cain 's hard-hearted hubris results in Abel's murder and Lilith's broken heart when he is banished, splitting the family and propelling mankind toward ever-increasing violence as their siblings seek revenge. Crushed by what he's done, Cain runs, certain he's destroyed Lilith, his parents, and the entire family. With Satan hounding his every move and no idea of the forces arrayed against him, can Cain ever find God after he's committed a sin of such magnitude? Can he ever be forgiven?




Melinda Viergever Inman was raised in the tornado capital of the U.S.—Wakita, Oklahoma, of "Twister" fame. There her parents met. There her roots were sunk in a storytelling family. During years of relocation, tragedy struck. Wounded and heartbroken, Melinda forsook her roots and ran from herself and from God. A journey of trial and heartache brought her home again. A prodigal now returned to her secure foundation, she writes with passion, illustrating God's love for wounded people as he makes beauty from ashes. Refuge is her first novel. Melinda shepherds women in church and in prison ministry and writes inspirational material on her biweekly blog at http://melindainman.com/blog/. With her family she is involved with Mission India, rescuing orphans and providing theological and job training for impoverished students— http://rimi.org/.
You can learn more and connect with Melinda here: