Thursday, May 28, 2015

Expect Favor by Dora Hiers


Recently hubby and I were blessed to hear Christian Success Coach Dr. Dave Martin speak at our church. With thought-provoking concepts and stand-up-comic-belly-laugh humor, he preached an entire sermon focused on one verse with the acronym DARE.

God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! (Eph 3:20 The Message)

Hang with me. I promise not to summarize the entire sermon or go into all of the letters, just E.

EXPECT favor

As in…expect favor from God, the Creator of the entire world. Who filled it with a sun that lights our days and warms our backs, and makes it rise and set without us ever having to lift a finger. He created seas that roar, rivers that trickle, and mountains that surge to the heavens. He crafted man from dust and woman from man and gifts us with precious little souls with miniature toes and fingers, exact replicas of their mommies and daddies. He’s amazing, right? He’s able to do infinitely more than we can ever imagine, but --

Do we really expect Him to?

Martin’s philosophy is that when we recognize and celebrate His involvement with the little things, we'll begin to see an increase in the bigger things. Cool, huh? 

Exactly two mornings later, I was immersed in writing and my son asked me to pick up our sick granddaughter from school. My first thought was my word count just got kicked to the curb.

My second? Expect favor.

Oops. Can I have a do-over?

Thank You, God—

·      for a job that allows me the flexibility to do things for my sons and grandkidlets.

·      for the few minutes of undivided attention with my teenage granddaughter, where she feels free to share what’s on her heart. Whether that’s about boys, friends or homework, thank You that she still likes to chat with her Meme.

·      that my son and his family live within a five minute drive of our house.

·      that even though I didn’t reach my daily word count, my weekly goal was right on target and my overall word count was ahead of projection.

·      for the break in routine, something You know I find challenging.

Whoa! Major attitude shift, right? Later that evening, I wasn’t stressed that I didn’t accomplish as much as I’d hoped. God is more than able to take my little and multiply as He pleases.

Expecting favor is not a one-time deal. It’s a lifestyle. It’s waking up and marveling over what miracle God will reveal today. It’s looking for the good in every circumstance, it’s treasuring the gift of the moment, it’s discovering nuggets of joy in the simple and mundane.

Expecting favor in my writing means praying over my stories and characters, asking God for His words to cascade down from heaven, to flow like a waterfall through my brain to my heart and then out my fingertips. It's savoring that first cup of java while the sun rises over my back deck or in front of a glowing fireplace, just me and Him. It’s rejoicing over every idea that percolates, every word that flows onto the page, every story that comes to life, whether or not it makes it to print. It’s appreciating that tingle of anticipation as my fingers poise across the keyboard, that jolt when a scene comes together in my head while my dog's dragging me around the park, or that satisfied sigh after writing a particularly emotional scene or finally arriving at THE END.

Maybe you’ve been doing this writing gig for a long time, and that mountain of rejection letters has buried your tiny seed of hope. Ask God to move the mountain and then expect His favor!


How about you? Can you see areas in your writing where you might adopt this expect favor attitude? Do you live every day expecting favor?

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Still stinging from the publicity surrounding her father's death, social phobic Rori Harmon prefers the solitude of her animal sanctuary, accepting that marriage isn’t in her future. Racecar Driver Graham Decker refuses to be wrangled into a relationship by another money-hungry female. On a philanthropy mission, he arrives just in time to assist Rori with a llama birthing, but his appearance thrusts her into the media spotlight again. Has Graham found a woman who doesn't care how deep his wallet extends? Has Rori finally met a man who will stick around when times get tough? Is healing for a hurting heart finally within Rori's reach?

Dora Hiers
Dora Hiers is a multi-published author of Heart Racing, God-Gracing romances. She’s a member of RWA and her local chapter, Carolina Romance Writers. Connect with her on Seriously Write, Fiction Faith & Foodies, Twitter, Facebook or Pinterest.

17 comments:

  1. Beautiful and encouraging reminder for all of us, Dora!

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  2. Love this, Dora. Thank you for the reminding us that His love is constant and sure, even when our circumstances aren't.

    Hugs, friend!

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    1. You're welcome, Angie. Hugs backatcha, sweet friend!

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  3. Love this post and just what I needed! Thanks for the message!

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    1. Glad it helped, Sally. I read it with fresh eyes this morning, and realized that God gave this to me just when I needed it, too. :) You're so welcome, my friend.

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  4. Oh, my ... I needed this today. I'm feeling behind in editing a project for a client and the word count for my own project is suffering. I have 20 things on my "to-do" list and I know I'll only get 3 of them checked off because of commitments to other people. Feeling a little overwhelmed. So this reminder is a great encouragement. Thanks, Dora!

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    1. Praying that God will multiply your accomplishments today, Dawn, as only He can do.

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  5. Wonderful message, Dora. I so believe this, the little things, but I did get thrown for a big loop when miracles we needed didn't happen--It's beyond my understanding why my family lost two young loved ones to brain cancer. Still reeling. I mean, I prayed constantly, constantly for the miracle I could almost touch... It did put the disappointments and frustrations of writing in perspective, though...as does volunteering at the horse rescue...THESE are living creatures that have had it far worse than I. Love you, my friend. Thanks for this brilliant and much needed reminder today. xoxoxo

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    1. Maybe it's because our view of death is vastly different from God's. We grieve for our loved ones, but maybe slipping into the peace of eternity was more for them? I'm so sorry, Tanya. Losses so painful and heart-wrenching are difficult to understand and accept, but I don't necessarily think we're meant to. God knows our hearts, dear friend, and He can handle our questions and our struggles. Love you!

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  6. I am learning to write with God, instead of for God. Expecting favor goes well with this effort. Thanks for sharing.

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    1. Oooh, I like that perspective, Zoe!

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  7. Great post, Dora! God is using you so powerfully - REJOICE - and Expect. I'll try to do the same!! Blessings, sweet friend.

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    1. Rejoicing and expecting right along with you, dear Marianne! Thank you!! Hugs! <3

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  8. How beautiful, Dora! What a difference it would make if 'expect favor' was my first thought when life's upsets come along - not just in writing but in everything.

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    1. Thank you, Sherry. You're so right. It makes a huge difference in perspective and outlook. I'm still working on it. :)

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  9. Great post, Dora! Thank you for encouraging us. I love this idea, this message. Now, I'm off to expect His favor. :D

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